What up folks!
My name is Aaron and I am an artist, speaker, and facilitator whose work focuses on uplifting the human soul, showcasing the beauty and grandeur of intimacy and sexuality, and helping individuals and couples live a more fulfilling life. I am also a father and husband who loves his family dearly and when not out creating is probably at a park playing tag with my oldest or singing the words to humpty dumpty over and over again with my youngest.
Ten years ago I began taking photos of individuals and couples because I wanted to change the way sexuality and the human body were seen in the eyes of society. As a teenager I was often angered by the way sex, sexuality, and men's and women's bodies were portrayed. The stereotypes and misogynistic tropes that filled adult films and most media created a desire inside of me to create visual content that showcased the true beauty and diversity of human bodies and of the joys of sexuality. So, I began taking photos of real everyday people making love, having moments of pleasure, and existing in their skin because I felt strongly that that is what the world needed to see. I felt that if we were exposed to authentic moments of pleasure instead of staged ones then we could step away from the false ideals created from movies and magazines about how we should look, act, feel and think.
As time went on, my desire to visually show the beauty of human skin and sexual pleasure grew into a calling to help others experience the grandeur of sexuality in their own lives. Along with that, came an understanding of the importance of intimacy and how our relationships with ourselves shape our relationships with others. After years of reflection, studying, and growth I realized that by taking a holistic approach towards enriching one’s sexuality and intimate life, they could have far greater results and improve their relationship with them-self and others.
I feel in my soul that sex is a gift and is one of the most beautiful acts that we as humans can partake in. I also feel that our sexualities are a vital part of our overall holistic wellbeing and that if we expect to grow into our fullest sexual selves we also need to grow our minds, bodies, and spirits so that we can experience the fullness and richness of all areas of life internally and externally.
Over the years, I have learned that anything worthwhile takes work to get. The same rule applies to relationships, experiences, and whatever else we desire. It takes time, being willing to shed what isn't needed, and a desire to take on whatever is holding us back from the place we want to be. When working with individuals or couples my approach is to start with the whole human. I start from the ground up. Just like when building a house, one doesn’t begin by putting on the roof, or windows, or paint. They start by leveling the ground, making sure the foundation is safe and secure, then begin with the frame. I take the same approach to helping people step deeper into their true selves. When manifesting a more enriching and fulfilling sex life, one must also enrich other areas of their life as well. All starting from within. Who they are, how they see themselves, and what issues/traumas they’ve dealt with all play major roles in how their sexualities develop and change over the years.
I believe in my heart that we are all entitled to live a life that is full of pleasure and deserve to walk fully in our truest selves. My goal is to help every person I can do exactly that..